Monday, September 20, 2010

Life giving Thoughts

Lovely Thoughts about Life

 When the world says, 

 "Give up,"

Hope whispers,

 "Try it one more time." 

  

A short walk is so difficult,

 when no one walks with you.

 But a long journey is just like few steps

 when you walk with someone

 who loves and cares for you.

 

 We always look and care for the person

 whom we love the most.

 But we fail to look back at those

 who love us the most.

 

Death is not the greatest loss in life...

 The greatest loss is when

 relationships die inside us while

 we are still alive...

 

 Life is not about the people

 who act true on your face... 

 Its about the people who

 remain true behind your back...

 

 Time decides whom you meet in life

 Your heart decides whom you want in life..

 But your behaviors decides

 who will stay in your life...

 

 You can win life by all means.. Yes...

 But, if you simply avoid two things...

 1. Comparing - with others

 2. Expecting - from other

 Life will be more beautiful!!

 

 

 

Prayer is not a "spare wheel" that you pull out when in trouble,

 but it is a "steering wheel" that directs the right path throughout.

 

Do you know why a Car's WINDSHIELD is so large & the Rearview Mirror is so small?

Because our PAST is not as important as our FUTURE.

Look Ahead and Move on.

 

Friendship is like a BOOK. It takes few seconds to burn, but it takes years to write.

 All things in life are temporary. If it is going well enjoy it, they will not last forever. 

 If it is going wrong don't worry, they can't last long either. 

 

 

When we lose hope and think this is the end,

 remember, "it's just a bend, not the end!

 

 

A blind person asked Swami Vivekananda:

 "Can there be anything worse than losing eye sight?"

He replied: "Yes, losing your vision!"

 

WORRYING does not take away tomorrows' TROUBLES;

 it takes away today’s' PEACE. 

  Have a fruitful day! Today and the days thereafter.. .

 

 

 by

Arul

 

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Winners Versus Losers

Winners Versus Losers


The Winner is always part of the answer;

The Loser is always part of the problem.

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The Winner always has a program;

The Loser always has an excuse.

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The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";

The Loser says, "That is not my job."

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The Winner sees an answer for every problem;

The Loser sees a problem for every answer.

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 The Winner says, " It may be difficult but it is possible";

The Loser says, "It may be possible but i t is too difficult."

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When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong";

When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."

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A Winner makes commitments;

A Loser makes promises.

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Winners have dreams;

Losers have schemes.

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Winners say, "I must do something";

Losers say, "Something must be done."

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Winners are a part of the team;

Losers are apart from the team.

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Winners see the gain;

Losers see the pain.

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Winners see possibilities;

Losers see problems.

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Winners believe in win-win;

Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

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Winners see the potential;

Losers see the past.

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Winners are like a thermostat;

Losers are like thermometers.

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Winners choose what they say;

Losers say what they choose.

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Winners use hard arguments but soft words;

Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

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Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;

Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

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Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would not want them to do to you";

Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you ."

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Winners make it happen;

Losers let it happen.

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Winners plan and prepare to win.

The key word is preparation.

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